Learning from being drunk
- People would be normal
- They'd drink this stuff
- They start acting differently
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HEY. Hey you. You're on the OLD NevBlog.com page. You should definitely visit the new page for updates. Thank you! Friday, January 22, 2010Learning from being drunk
In college I was first exposed to people who would get drunk when they go out. It was always fascinating because:
After more and more drinks it was very easy to see people getting chattier, louder and generally less inhibited. It's clear that alcohol is pretty good at spicing up a party, but why do we need it? It always bugged me that some people HAD to drink to have fun. Maybe they didn't have to, but it really enhanced their good time...but why? Being slightly nerdy I would select random people at a party and analyze their behavior from sober to drunk and in between. I would also do it with the best test subject I could find: myself. Now THIS is fun science :-) I would take mental notes of what I was doing differently when intoxicated. There are a lot of good traits about being slightly intoxicate like the willingness to chat up strangers, feeling less nervous and not worrying so much about things. You tend to become a slightly more "fun" person when you're a little tipsy. There are also bad things such as not being able to comprehend things as well, loss of coordination (I can barely play the guitar if drunk), paying lots of money for alcohol, not remembering things as clearly, the whole driving issue and waking up feeling like crap. So the novel of idea of NOT drinking, yet trying to emulate the GOOD qualities of being drunk popped into my head. Over the years I've randomly decided to not drink on some days....no reason other than to just test pretending to be drunk. Not drinking is easy. It really isn't that hard to refuse rounds of drinks because you can ALWAYS pawn off a free drink on someone else. You can also easily get a cola or other non-alcoholic drink to keep up the illusion. Almost 80% of the time the bartender doesn't even charge me for a "plain Coca-Cola" or pineapple juice! I'd try to mimic the "good" effects of alcohol when I did this, and to my surprise it actually works quite well with practice! It actually helps you have a lot more fun when you "pretend" to be drunk! For example: Let's say you're shy to dance, I know I used to be. I would always think "I wonder what people are thinking of me" or "I wonder if I look silly" over and over in my head. However if I was a little drunky munky I'd probably dance anyway, accept the fact I possibly look ridiculous, wouldn't care what people thought and just have a good time. So if I were sober and dancing, I would think WWDND? What Would Drunk Neville Do....and just do that. It actually takes some mental effort and practice to not emulate some drunky qualities, but it's well worth it. It can also apply to many other situations in life. This little technique has definitely helped me have a lot of fun over the years. Now all this alcohol talk kind of makes me want a drink... :-) Cheers! -Neville Wednesday, August 12, 2009Back Flips Part 2A little while ago I wanted to learn back flips. Well here is the 2nd part which was never posted (filmed circa March 2009). Tried doing back flips on my own over and over. ![]() Clearly wasn't consistently working so I needed to consult someone who knew proper technique. Had a bunch of moderate attempts, one great success and one nearly-nose-breaking failure: ![]() ![]() Like my nose too much to sacrifice for a back flip, so decided to get some proper instruction with proper safety equipment: ![]()
Made video of my first back flip attempts: Weekly practices interrupted by travel. Manage to make the 2nd part of video: Finally got them down! ![]() When learning by myself, imapct after impact took a toll on my knees. In this case: No fear + No skill = Bad results. ![]() Just to make sure nothing was really wrong: Doctors visit + four weeks of physical therapy. ![]() Watching that face-plant....priceless! Labels: Health, motivation, Personal Monday, July 13, 2009How I Lost Weight by Accident
I noticed sometime in early 2008 that I was starting to get a little chunky around the sides. I would suck in my stomach in front of the mirror and it no longer showed the muscles underneath like it used to.
Problem: I was getting fatter. Another Problem: I was always being lazy (although at the time I never dreamed it had anything to do with food). I don't remember a period since college where I didn't regularly get lots of physical activity or regularly go to the gym....so this wasn't the problem. One day my mom gave me a 5 pound bag of Clementine's no one at home was eating. I took them to Austin with me. They're like mini oranges that you can easily peel. I LOVED THEM! I liked them a lot, but would eat maybe one or two a day. I then read Steve Pavlina's 30-day raw diet experiment where he would eat only raw foods like fruits and vegetables. I had no intention of emulating this, but I was amazed at the sheer quantity of fruit he would eat. Instead of two Clementine's, he would eat 8 or 10. Instead of one banana a day, he would eat 10+. For some reason I just didn't think of eating that many....sounds stupid, but true. I've never seen anyone eat THAT much fruit before. So taking a cue from that I decided to up my fruit intake because I've always loved fruits. I ate pretty much the same junk I used to, but now with a whole lot more fruit. Slowly and slowly I started eating more and more, to the point where lunch was pretty much just grapes, apples, avocados, oranges etc. Now of course I still craved heavier foods from time to time and would allow myself to pig out McDonald's (I still love McDonald's), but for the most part I was eating a lot less of everything else, and a lot more fruits. During this time I started gaining an affinity for fruits and stopped craving junk food as much. Through the day I would snack on fruit and it felt great. The cool thing about eating that way is you don't have to really watch what you eat. Pig out an all the fruit you want. For dinner I decided that I wasn't eating terribly unhealthy anymore, but my portions were out of control. To combat this I simply used a small plate, almost like a tea saucer to eat dinner on. I would try stacking my food sky high, but that little plate wouldn't hold much. I allowed myself to return for as many servings, but that tiny plate had to be used. I quickly found myself eating drastically less food yet being equally satisfied, simply because I didn't have much on the plate. I also stopped getting that over-stuffed "food baby" feeling after dinner. I was still eating a bunch of junk, so I decided to not buy anything in a box. Well, I would still eat pasta or rice every night, and I suppose pasta and sauce comes in a box/bottle, but that was the extent of it. I stopped buying cookies, chips, soups, snacks or anything like that....and the transition really wasn't that hard. I would still eat junk at a party or when it was available somewhere, but I wouldn't keep it in the house. I would also go to the grocery with one of those small hand-carts you carry instead of a rolling shopping cart. I physically wouldn't have space to put a bottle of Coke or any other non-essential item.
There were two VERY noticeable side effects to my new eating habits:
I never realized how cheap most produce is. You fill a basket with everything from the produce section and you're looking at a pretty cheap grocery bill. It was an unexpected benefit. The really crazy benefit was the way I felt after a few days of eating like this. Previously I would wake up, go to the office (two steps away from my bedroom) and sluggishly start working. Prior to that I'd usually hit the snooze button 10 times. I was sort of productive, but I always had "Fog Brain." Fog Brain is not really a tired or lazy sensation, it's just a not-as-clear-as-I-could-be sensation (which results in being somewhat lethargic). Now I finally understand what a lot of people talk about when they start eating better and getting "better mental clarity." It sounds like some hippy peace/love crap, but it works. I was more aware, willing to work longer and had better clarity....I also slept better, but more noticeable was I woke up in the morning with greater ease. I'm not saying everyday I'd hop out of bed with enthusiasm, but waking up was MUCH easier....working out was MUCH easier...and working through problems and issues seemed MUCH easier. I sincerely wish I had discovered this in college. I literally cannot explain how much clearer everything seemed when I ate well for extended periods of time. The benefit was immense. So those benefits were great, but the changes physically were the most fun. I had always worked out, so I would get larger muscles, but my body fat pretty much remained constant due to my horrendous eating habits and love of fast food. Now my body fat was shrinking, and while my muscles remained relatively constant, I could see them better. Especially around the waist and chest. A few times a month I took a shirtless picture of myself in a flexed and un-flexed pose (These pics are from Feb. 2008 till July 2008) in order to gauge my progress. Here are the UN-FLEXED pics. Me just standing in a relaxed pose in front of the camera (Click image for full size): Here are the FLEXED pics. Tensing the body to show muscles better. The difference from the 1st picture to the last picture is relatively dramatic (Click image for full size): Here are both the images above put next to each other (Click image for full size): None of the pics have been Photoshopped (except cropping). Some things learned from taking these pics:
During this time I didn't take any vitamins, supplements, protein shakes or any type of physical fitness product. I simply ate less "bad stuff" through moderation and a lot more "good" food. ----------------------------------------- Eating habits:
Originally I liked the benefit of losing body fat and looking ripped, but that superficial goal didn't last long. Eventually I started to slip back into bad eating habits since the motivation to "be ripped" wasn't strong enough. The thing that got me back into eating properly is the obvious difference in my mental clarity, being unbelievably more productive than before and waking up with much greater ease. The changes to physicality are just a happy side benefit. Unexpected benefits: I'm quite sure NO ONE wants to hear this, but taking a poop is a much more pleasant experience when eating well (did I just say that)?? Everything comes out quicker and is a lot easier to clean up. I suppose less time spent in the bathroom can also be considered a productivity benefit :-) Naysayers: I've never heard so much conflicting advice about a subject like working out and health. No matter what you do for exercise or diet there will always be some conflicting opinion, study, blah blah blah... Whatever. Just eat well. Your body is much stronger than you might expect. If you eat 3 bananas in one day you won't die of a sugar overdose, or if you don't eat steak everyday you won't start losing mass amounts of muscle. You'll be fine. Drawbacks:
Sticking To It: Fortunately you do this a couple of times, and the "bad" binges get shorter and shorter. The quality of work and productivity is so much higher when you're eating clean, that it almost seems silly to eat bad stuff. But don't worry, you're supposed to shock your system once a week and eat horribly, so that makes it fun! Happy eating! Labels: Health, Money Experiments, motivation, Personal Tuesday, March 03, 2009Learning to Backflip
I wanted to learn how to do a backflip. Basically do a "backflip experiment."
I've tried them before but like most people I had an extremely strong anti-backwards response like a cat which forces you to turn sideways when you're upside down in mid-air. So whilst at my rock climbing gym I decided to give these a try because they have thick crash pads I could fall on. The pads help remove the hesitation of flipping backwards (and busting your ass on the ground). Just to see what I was doing wrong I decided to videotape myself doing these....which kind of turned into a mini-documentary on my backflip progress.
So I enlisted the help of John who knows how to do them correctly. We went with a few friends to the park and tried them on the extremely hard ground...it was a step softer than concrete. With his help, after 3 or 4 tries I actually did a PROPER BACKFLIP!! I was very excited and eager to try another....and therefore forgetting to concentrate on the task at hand. The next flip I landed directly on my FACE. I'm not exactly sure how I didn't break my nose after that impact...but I did get a scar between my brow and nose....
Finding a place with trampolines, foam pit and other gymnastics equiqment wasn't hard, but the max age for all these places was around 13 to 16. I'm 26 so that would be odd....kind of like that Seinfeld episode where Kramer takes a Karate class with kids. Fortunately a friend found out about a place that holds night classes for adults, so I enrolled in that. There I had some proper instruction and equipment which was more forgiving than the park grounds. By the second lesson I could do the backflips much better, sometimes landing them correctly. By the 3rd time I was doing them pretty consistently! Not only that but I'm now learning those roundoff-to-back-tuck flip sequences which are even more fun. Of course my backflips still need some perfecting. I'm still jumping back quite a bit, whereas a perfect backflip starts and ends in the exact same location. So here are all the backflip attempts I videotaped, including my face-plant!
---------------------- THANK YOU AMAN, I personally thought it was a great life lesson (or business) video:
"Lessons are everywhere and not always directly put out there." Labels: Health |
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