September 2013 Goals

I usually like giving myself only a maximum of three goals, but there’s no particular time-frame for them (which personally helps me).

So this month I’ve divided the goals up into week-long chunks.  I’m testing how this will work:


WEEK 1: Apartment modifications
I’ve always been only semi-satisfied with my previous workspace at my current apartment.  It was small, my legs would always hit the desk…and for some reason I was just LAZY at this desk.

So I ended up buying an adjustable height Float table….it should be here in a couple of weeks:

I was thinking this amount of money for a desk is INSANE since you can buy a nice desk for waaaayyyy cheaper….but this desk had unique engineering, simplistic elegance, and can easily go from a sitting-desk to a standing-desk in 2 seconds without moving stuff off the desk.

……oh yea, and I also bought a 3D printer!!! (a MakerBot Replicator 2).  More on that in a bit


WEEK 2: NevBlog store up and running
I’ve got so many different products and things I sell, but all in different places.  Need a place to consolidate that a bit.  Also need some semi-advanced functionality for some of these things, but I don’t want to build that myself.  So I’ve started using Shopify to build a NevBlog store.

For a few days I was just CONSTANTLY comparing Shopify, BicCommerce and Volusion to see which platform would suite me best.

BigCommerce actually had the functionality I wanted right out of the box, but was more bulky, hard to modify, and less intuitive to use (but it did have a lot of very good features I liked).

Shopify was lightweight, SUPER easy to use.  It didn’t have the same digital delivery capability as BigCommerce, but I’ve found some work-arounds.


WEEK 3: Products ported over.
I’ll have to go individually through each offering I have and make sure it works with this new store.

WEEK 4: Start life-changer NevBox.
To be announced :)

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    I wish I was a hacker.


    I literally used to (and still do) day-dream about being a famous ethical hacker.

    I sort of was one a long time ago.

    In high school, I was able to gain access to the Novell security systems used by the school computers.  I was also in a special Cisco class where they taught us to create, modify, and break-in to computer networks.

    So I was able to hack into routers, gain teacher access to school computers, and do this totally anonymously.

    But I never used these nerdy superpowers to hurt anyone or be malicious.  In fact, I used to HELP school administrators clean up the servers from kids putting weird videos and such on the servers….or help with issues they would have.

    When I day-dream, I think of telling people at a dinner party, “Me? I’m a hacker.  But an ETHICAL hacker! I go to big organizations like NASA, GE, Facebook, Google and try to hack into their systems.  Then when I find a vulnerability, I tell them, and they pay me to help fix it!”

    I imagine myself making millions of dollars by ethically hacking into these systems.
    “Oh yeah, I found a loophole that would give me access to any Gmail account on Google, and showed Google how to fix it….they paid me $900,000 for a one-day consultation”

    I dunno….it just sounds so damn COOL to me.

    But alas that’s not my skill anymore.  I can’t program anymore, and realized in college I was WAY behind the curve in the world of computer programmers (in fact I got kicked out of the computer science program at UT in my first year there because I was SO sucky compared to others)!

    So my ambitions of being a super-hero hacker fell through because:
    1.) I suck at it….
    2.) I’m not willing to put forth the effort to become one….
    3.) I don’t really enjoy programing all that much, I just like the “idea” of it.

    But….something happened later in life around college where I discovered another super-power:

    Writing stuff, doing experiments, and reporting about them in a weird enough way to keep people interested.

    It sort of came naturally and by accident.

    Like….it was super easy to know what would be more interesting to others….which was the exact opposite of programming which was hard an un-intuitive to me.

    This was a Facebook post I saw from Michael Fishman which demonstrated this perfectly:

    Wow!  Well said Michael!  :::gives standing ovation:::

    When I made the KopywritingKourse, it just performed well, people learned, and subsequently lots of people made lots of money from what they learned in that course.

    It was easy.  It flowed.  it was FUN.  It was natural.

    My superpower had been exposed!

    Neville Medhora

    P.S.  I ‘m physically sending out five NevBox’s for this post…..just leave a comment on the post letting me know if you have a “super power”….even if it’s kinda dumb, and I might be shipping you a NevBox in the mail!  Would love to hear your superpower.  I read every comment.  (btw, you can’t buy NevBox’s anymore, and if you could, they would cost $97 each…so leave a comment below to enter to win)!

    P.P.S.  There’s a maid in my hotel room right now making the bed and cleaning stuff while I sit here and type….am I supposed to tip her??

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      Ashdin’s Birthday!

      A brother is a cool thing to have.  Especially when you get to pick on him when he’s little, then compliment him when he’s older ;-)

      Mine is turning 26 today, so HAPPY BIRTHDAY ASHDIN!

      Here’s a few things I’ve learned from my little brother: 

      I started playing the guitar in 8th grade, he started playing in 5th grade….

      I took private lessons, and got my instructor to teach me songs instead of music theory (which as an 8th grader is totally lame).

      Well whaddya know….APPPAARRAANNNTLY learning the foundations of music early on help you learn to play much better.

      Within the next few years my musical ability was playing 10 songs on the guitar….whereas my brother could now freely play ANY style of music quickly because he had the foundations down.

      This inspired me to start taking lessons and learn actual music theory and basics when I was 26.  After 10+ years of “knowing how” to play the guitar…..I finally learned chords and scales.

      Till this day he remains an order of magnitude better than me at guitar, and picks up other instruments with remarkable speed.

      Me & Ashdin practicing on some big-ass rented amplifiers to play at a friends wedding:

      I’m always impressed by his questioning of morals.

      He went vegetarian for a while in college, on the basis that if we could farm food, why eat animals.

      This isn’t necessarily the view of our meat-eating family, but he stuck to his guns and rolled with it until his mind changed.

      During this time my mom would cook different food for him (usually healthier food), and slowly this impact started spreading to the rest of us.

      I remember him talking to a family friend about his decision, and she was giving back counter-arguments about eating animals.  He asked her this one question:

      “How would you feel if we ate Trudy?” (their family dog).

      She got super upset at the question and repulsed by the idea.  While I don’t think that ever changed her mind, hearing her reaction made me laugh….and I’ll never forget how much that single question rocked her mentality.

      He could possibly be God.

      At 25 years old on this trip to India he looked SHOCKINGLY LIKE Zarathustra!!  (he’s like the Zoroastrian version of Jesus).


      I remember us having a hilarious conversation about our religion with some older family, and Ashdin said (paraphrased from memory):

      “So 5,000 years ago this guy goes into the desert, says he saw God, and now we worship him.  But if I went into the desert, and came back saying I saw God, people would think I’m crazy.”

      BAHAHAHA!!  It’s true.

      If you look at that picture above, Ashdin could’ve easily dressed in some robes, occasionally said some wise shit, and been the guy we worship 5,000 years later.


      Wish my brother a happy birthday in the comments, and I’ll select 5 people to send a NevBox!

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        August 2013 – Day 6

        Oye ve… was exhausting and very productive!

        The trick is to make a schedule that pushes you to get stuff done before you’re comfortable with the final result.  Otherwise nothing gets done.

        Here is a scratched off to-do list (and partial calories tracked for the day):

        photo (2)

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          doing dumb crap is good for you

          I used to do a lot of dumb crap that ended up becoming useful later on in life.

          I did these things just for fun.

          Maybe I was a nerd.
          Maybe I had too much free time.
          But they almost always translated into useful skills SOMEWHERE down the line.

          In high school I started to learn Photoshop for fun.  I illegally downloaded it and tinkered around.  Since I was a high school student around the year 2000, there wasn’t much use for it, so I used it for dumb things.

          I used to do crap like take pictures of my first car (a 1992 Mercury Sable) shown here:

          ….and I would Photoshop different rims and graphics onto the car like this:OOhhhhhh yeeeaaa Pimp My Ride!!!

          ….OK, clearly this was stupid, but by accident I started teaching myself Photoshop.

          Now I use Photoshop on a daily basis for….
          –Friends ask for images to be modified.
          –I can mockup spec-sheets for outsourcing really well (like this and this).
          –I can make website elements really quick.
          –I can make stuff for my blog and business instantly.
          –I can show a developer exactly what I want on a webpage.

          Through “stupid things” I also learned to:
          –Make webpages.
          –Make & use blogs and eCommerce systems.
          –Started to write.
          –Do handstands and backflips.
          ….and way more.

          So if there’s a dumb hobby you have, stupid thing you wanna learn….  GO DO IT and don’t worry if it’s “useful”!

          There’s always some useful application for it in the future!
          Neville Medhora

          P.S.  I still remember this picture being the favorite thing I ever Photoshopped in high school!

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            August 2013 Goals

            Here’s my goals for August 2013:

            August 2013 Goals


            I’ve been a little on the un-productive side last month, so to keep me on track, I’ll be trying to post my daily to-do list’s all scratched out on this blog.

            Hope you’ve got YOUR August goals set!

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              about alcohol

              I wanna talk about alcohol.   

              I recently had a small “discovery” about myself which has drastically cut down on my alcohol consumption.

              And just for fun, I’m going to write this email, whilst drinking a beer!

              So here’s how I’d normally drink alcohol:

              IF I’m at a party….
              IF they are serving alcohol…

              I will normally drink.  

              There’s no real rhyme or reason to this.  I’ll simply have a cocktail or beer out of habit.

              Now my problem is I drink FAST.
              If I have a drink in my hand (whether it’s a beer, martini, or CocaCola), I’ll keep taking sips until it’s finished.

              When I’m done, I’ll get another.

              I could finish three drinks before someone else finishes one, and not even realize it till it “hits me.”

              I went to 9 weddings in 2012 alone, and I want to share with you a common theme:

              1….) I would show up to the wedding reception where there’s always an open-bar starting around 7pm till dinner starts.

              2….) I would load up on free drinks, and by dinner time, be kind of buzzed (let’s not use euphemistic words to hide the truth here ….I’d be kinda drunk by this time).

              3….) Every drink I take lowers my ability to keep up conversation and be “sharp”… I’d be bit dull by the time dinner starts.

              4….) Since I’ve been drinking, I’m SUPER hungry by dinner time, and I scarf down the meal and whatever leftovers I can get from others.

              5….) So now I’m at a wedding, can barely stand up, feel bloated, have to take a huge dump, feeling cranky, and can no longer make witty conversation.  I just wanna leave at this point.

              OK……so by the end of a wedding I’m feeling like crap all because I had too many drinks too fast in the beginning.

              This was shockingly apparent to me when I was at a wedding in Cancun (the 4th wedding of that year).  I drank before the dinner started, then scarfed down three plates of food (they flew in a chef from Goa and the food was incredible)….and I felt so bloated and full that I had to go back to my hotel room to throw up.

              I ate SO much food I literally couldn’t keep it down.

              This was my body’s way of saying, “OK YOU DUMBASS YOU NEED TO SLOW THE FUCK DOWN.”

              I don’t think I’ve ever told anyone that story until now.
              It’s incredibly embarrassing.

              SOoooo I ended up making a “Wedding routine” I started following with great success for the next round of weddings.  Perhaps you can use this advice for parties you go to:

              1.) I would not have any drinks till AFTER dinner.  Because of this I could keep up great conversation and have a good time without an impending crash.

              2.) I would only eat HALF the dinner portioned to me (to avoid feeling so full).

              3.) Sometime late into the dinner or after, only if I felt like it, I would start having drinks with friends.  Having a few drinks helped me have more fun on the dance floor.  Several times I simply didn’t feel like drinking at this point because I was having a lot of fun and didn’t want/need any drinks.  It was liberating.

              THAT’S IT.  That simple change of “only drinking after dinner” completely changed the outcome!!

              Such a stupid little hack changed everything!!

              Now that routine worked well for events like weddings, but I frequently go to tech meetups and events, and they’re often held at bars.

              The WHOLE point of these is to meet other nerds and have cool conversations.  But with every drink I have, my intelligence goes down.

              So one day I was talking with a shy-yet-incredibly-intelligent friend *cough cough* STEVE *cough cough*

              ….and we were talking about drinking habits.  He asked me one question which till this day I cannot get out of my mind.

              This is almost verbatim what he said:

              “I don’t understand why you drink.  You’re already outgoing, so why do you need alcohol?  I’m super quiet and nervous at parties, so if I have 1 or 2 drinks, it actually loosens me up and I have a better time.  So the alcohol serves a purpose for me.  But for you it doesn’t.”

              –my friend Steve

              HOLY FREAKIN CRAP.

              I had never ONCE in my life asked the simple question:
              Will this drink make my time here better or worse? 

              This led me down this path of thinking about all the other hidden invisible scripts I (and others) follow in life.

              Go to party with drinks —> You drink. 

              Go to college —> Then get job. 

              Party is invite only —> You can’t go

              It seems that we all follow these invisible scripts for seemingly small things.

              So remember in the beginning of this article I said “I’m going to write this email, whilst drinking a beer!”

              That wasn’t a joke.
              I am sitting on my couch with my Macbook Air and a Blue Moon beer on the table.

              But here’s the thing…..
              I was feeling lazy and un-creative before.  I was tickled by the idea of drinking a beer WHILE writing an article about drinking, so I did it.  And the beer served me.

              Actually the beer isn’t near me anymore.  I only drank half and put it back in the fridge.  Because instead of following the script of “Have open beer —> Drink it”….I’m asking if the beer is serving me or not.

              It served me when I started.  And now that I’m done, I don’t want anymore.

              I’d like for you to identify one invisible script you do on your own, and how you’ve changed that behavior (or plan to).

              I love hearing stories that have TINY changes that product BIG results (so I can emulate them).

              I’m particularly interested to hear about changes in your relationship, work, or habits.

              Leave a comment on my blog about them (you can remain anonymous or change your name if you’d like).  I will be selecting 5 commenters to send a NevBox to in the mail (anywhere in the world)! (remember each NevBox cost $97 and I have to physically ship it to you via snail mail…..and I’m no longer selling them).

              So go comment with a SMALL change that’s produced BIG results for you, and I might be contacting you to send you a NevBox!!!

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