Have you ever heard a girl say:
“OMG I HATE DRAMA!! I can’t STAND people with drama!”
I’ll take a solid bet that crazy b*tch has some DRAMA going on!!!!
If she HATES drama so much, it probably means she goes through so much drama, that she hates it.
Have you ever heard a person say:
“HOLY BEJEEZUS I HATE MONDAYS!!”
One.) Who still says ‘holy bejeezus’??
Two.) What this person MEANS to say is, “Boy do I hate the work I PERSONALLY have to do for 5 weekdays in a row, starting with Monday.”
Three.) This person in blaming “Monday” as being the enemy….not their shitty job.
People who don’t feel what they’re doing is “work” generally don’t complain about it much.
These types of negative attitudes shown above might seem pretty harmless, but when people agree with you after saying those statements, it re-enforces the bad behavior in you.
You: “I hate people with drama.”
Other person: “Yeah people with drama totally suck.”
You: “God I don’t wanna go to work tomorrow, Monday suuccckks!!”
Other person: “I’m withya man. Wish I could have another day off.”
See what happened?
You completely get off the hook for YOUR shitty mindset.
Instead of doing anything about reducing drama in your life or making your work life better, you just continue on with the negative patterns and blame external things.
I’m sure you’re guilty of this from time-to-time. I sure am.
So here’s a little self-improvement task:
I want you to notice just one negative thinking pattern you have.
Basically any attitude where you blame SOMETHING ELSE other than yourself. But in reality it’s YOU that can control that situation.
I want you to tell me what this attitude is because:
1.) I’m nosey.
2.) By writing it out, it’ll help you correct it (if you want to).
Leave a comment below and let me know what you blame on SOMETHING ELSE, but in reality it’s YOU that can control it:
P.S. I will be physically shipping FIVE NevBox’s to the best comments (worth $97/each).